Friday, September 5, 2008 9:16 AM
I feel unwell, i feel sort of weak... But i am trying to brace myself.
I am waiting for you to be back.
Waiting for you to assure me everything will be fine.
I miss you.. i really do.
Be back safe and sound, thats your promise.
Relationships of all kinds are like sand held in your hand.
Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is.
The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers....
You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled and its gonna be hard to pick them back.
A relationship that you have works the same...
Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact and it will always be there....
But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.
Don't you think so?
